Despite the progress that has been made in achieving gender equality in the workplace, women are still expected to prove themselves time and time again. This is a stark contrast to their male counterparts, who are often considered competent by default. This double standard is not only unfair, but it also creates unnecessary obstacles for women in their careers.

Vinita Ananth
2 min readApr 6, 2023

The pressure to prove oneself is a common experience for many women in the workplace. Even when women have the same qualifications and experience as their male colleagues, they may still be viewed as less competent. This can lead to women being overlooked for promotions, being given less challenging assignments, or simply being ignored altogether.

One reason for this double standard is the societal belief that men are naturally more competent than women. This belief is deeply ingrained in our culture, and it is reinforced by media, advertising, and other forms of popular culture. As a result, women are often expected to work harder and prove themselves more than men in order to be taken seriously.

Another reason for this double standard is the way that women are socialized. From a young age, girls are taught to be polite, deferential, and accommodating. These traits are not typically associated with leadership or competence, and they can make it difficult for women to assert themselves in the workplace. Men, on the other hand, are socialized to be assertive and confident, which are traits that are typically associated with leadership and competence.

Despite these obstacles, women have made significant progress in the workplace over the past few decades. Women now make up a larger percentage of the workforce than ever before, and many have broken through the glass ceiling to reach positions of power and influence. However, there is still a long way to go before true gender equality is achieved.

To overcome the double standard that women face in the workplace, it is important for both men and women to be aware of their biases and work to overcome them. Women can assert themselves more confidently and take on leadership roles, while men can work to challenge their own assumptions about gender and competence. Employers can also take steps to promote gender equality in the workplace, such as offering training programs to help employees recognize and overcome their biases.

In conclusion, the expectation that women must prove themselves time and time again in the workplace is a deeply ingrained and unfair double standard. By working to overcome this bias and promote gender equality, we can create a more just

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Vinita Ananth

Azure Customer Engineering at Microsoft. Lead Azure Global Specialized Workloads specifically SAP, HPC, VMware and Legacy. All views are personal.